The Independent
The Weekend Review - 23 January 1999
Andrew Hasson
Join the country-house set
Stuck for a location for that special party? Don't worry - a 17th-century mansion could be yours for the weekend.
By Gill Hasson

It is an obvious place to lie low I thought, as I cowered in the priest's hole: evidence of the mansion's recusant past. From the end of the hall I could hear Harry and Sam scampering up the spiral staircase. They must be going to hide in the loft, I thought. Suddenly I froze. Above me, I could hear 10-year-old Tom and Emily's screams from one of the third-floor attic rooms; Stuart and Andy had found them.

I could just about make out the sounds of chatting and laughter from the rest of the group downstairs in the kitchen, unaware of the mayhem up here. Well, why should they worry? It was only three of the grown-ups playing murder in the dark with the kids. Who could resist? It's not often we get the chance to indulge in this sort of play.

A birthday or an anniversary, is a great excuse to meet up with friends and family. But supposing you live in one corner of the country, and many of your potential guests live miles away. How do you get them all together?

Well, you simply entertain on a grand scale and throw a house party - hire a large country house and invite everyone to stay for a long weekend. A large group of us did just that for our friend Jane's 40th birthday We got together at Treowen, a huge, 17th-century Grade I listed house four miles from Monmouth, in south Wales. The property is privately let by the present owners, the Wheelock family, who lived and farmed here until 1993. Their brochure promised us "panelled rooms, magnificent staircases, delightful gardens, breathtaking views, private woodland walks and a lofty position at the far end of a half-mile-long drive in one of the most beautiful corners of Wales".

No promises were broken. It was all completely true. This enormous house, built in 1627, can sleep up to 30 people in bedrooms with names such as the Cherub Bedroom, the Passage Bedroom and a personal favourite, this - the Chamber Over the Great Chamber.

Our celebration group was made up of 17 adults and five children. And there was no need for anyone to feel forced into being sociable all of the time. You could easily escape to one of the magnificent bedrooms or drawing-rooms to nurse a hangover. Indeed, over the course of the weekend we hardly saw the five kids in the group. Treowen is a children's delight. They spent most of their time exploring outside, playing badminton and mini-snooker in the banqueting hall, or running up and down the 72 steps of the 6ft-wide solid oak staircase.

Apart from deciding whom to invite, the only other piece of organisation required was arranging the food. Jane had already planned the meals we were going to have and had phoned us all the week before to tell us what part of her shopping list each was to bring. The kitchen is more than adequately equipped to allow catering for large groups.

The birthday banquet took place in the oak-panelled dining-room. Meal over, it was upstairs to continue the celebrations with dancing to loud music in the Long Drawing Room - 34ft long, in fact. We brought our own sound system, and we played it very loud, keenly aware that there were no neighbours to disturb.

The next day, fresh air and exercise were provided by a walk to one of the two pubs within a two-mile walk of the house. For those who wish to travel a little further afield, there is the beautiful Wye Valley, the Forest of Dean and the romantic ruin of Tintern Abbey to explore.

Whatever the occasion, Treowen is different enough to provide the perfect setting for a memorable celebration. After a few hours, it felt as though we had suddenly inherited this grand old property from a long-lost relative; it was ours, to treat as our own, if only for a few days.

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